Feminine Energy vs. Masculine Energy
- Melanie Patenaude
- Sep 10, 2023
- 1 min read
No matter your gender, everyone has both Feminine and Masculine energies. You may have a predominant energy that you dance in, but we all have BOTH!

Have you ever seen one of those Yin Yang signs?
Well, that symbol is an exact depiction of Feminine (Yin) and Masculine (Yang) energies.
Yin is the Feminine. The Moon. Darkness. Passivity. Death. Earth. Cold. Calm. Slow. Flow. Intuitive.
Yang is the Masculine. The Sun. Light. Active. Birth. Sky. Warm. Expressive. Fast. Order. Logique.
The balance of Yin and Yang is important!
As much as it's important to balance both energies, it's even more important to know the difference between devine (i.e. healthy) vs. wounded (i.e. healthy) energies.
So let me break down what devine and wounded versions of both energies looks like.

DIVINE FEMININE:
Is lead by her intuition
Compassionate & Empathetic
Doesn’t dim her light to fit in
Sets healthy boundaries
Knows her worth
Knows her core values
Feels validated from within
Is confident in who she is
Lives unapologetically
Easily forgives herself and others
Creative & Abundant
Comfortable in her sensuality & sexuality
Receives support from the Masculin
Her empowerment lies in her discernment
Deeply rooted in her integrity
Owns her imperfections
Speaks gently to herself
Is grounded in her heart

WOUNDED FEMININE:
Is lost in her head
Is majority indecisive
Compromises her integrity & values
People pleaser
Procrastinates making decisions
Gossips
Jealous of other women
Judges others
Competes with other women
Co-dependent
Manipulative
Insecure
Easily attached, especially in relationship
Wallowing & drowning in her emotions
Afraid to speak her truth
Low self worth
Tolerates toxic people
Seeks external validation
Apologizes for who she is
Speaks negatively to herself
Over sensitive
Stuck in victimhood - waiting to be saved
Feels guilty for receiving




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